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    October 30

    镜子

    有些人让你觉得敬佩,有些人让你觉得叹为观止,有些人让你深思,有些人让你激昂。你们像是相互交叉或者平行的线条,一起勾勒出整个世界的样子。

    但世界上却也有这么一类人,他们和你是如此地相似,他说他的起点是因为命运;20多年前他就敢从交大退学把前途赌在留学之上;在赚够了一辈子不愁吃喝的钱之后,他说他想去大学教书;他说他现在最大的期待就是带着自己的孩子寒暑假的时候环游世界。你恍惚地仿佛看到你曾经幻想的自己的未来,但那个他已经用他的方式赎回了他的生命,而你,却还欠自己一份自由。

    在你看到了国营纺织厂的倒闭,身边的叔叔阿姨们艰难地生活的样子,还是小孩的你就已经明白生活从来没有所谓的安定,而虚荣心和面子对你来说更不是一个合适的理由。当然,光鲜的生活,从来都是一个值得考虑的生活目标,只是他们不适合你罢了。

    生命给了你一种自由的尺度,但不被束缚的代价就是你并不善于去争取光鲜体面的生活。这世界有太多的聪明人,这一点你在复旦应该已经有所体会。既然你没有办法做到GPA4.0,那么去找一条别的路,去在你自己的地方找回你的价值,那里,有着你的自由。又何苦勉强自己做做不到的事,下不可能的承诺呢。

    每一次选择都是考验, 但每一个结果都是命运。牢记着别人给你的忠告,“好好对待身边的人”,“去喜欢别人,去宽容地接受别人的价值观”,“怀着希望站在潮流之上”等等。这些让你觉得自己生命是如此贫瘠的人也给了你走下去的勇气。

    今天这个叫张晟的前辈的出现,和麦肯锡的拒绝,都让你确信了自己原来的假设。命运从来不让你错过什么,他只是善意地告诉你,那不是你自己的路。看,在你眼前是新的选择。能够勇敢地去追逐需要莫大的勇气和时间,同时也让自己牢记,你还欠着生命一份自由。

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    心恺 陈wrote:
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    Nov. 1
    Xiao Yi Liuwrote:
    Jia You :)
    Oct. 31

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